I met El on her old blog, I participated in the decision to start this one, but I never thought to actively be part of it. But “I never thought” has always been a recurring phrase in our relationship.
Surely I would have never thought to review my position on the balance within the couple. I always believed that respect and equality were based on a perfect symmetry and this has held from put in practice the curiosity about kinks. Some errors, few skids, and many words later, we have learned how to craft our relationship tailored to us.
And so I learned that, in certain moments, fully take control does not remove the other freedom, but is the only way to allow her to express what she has inside.
We will construct the rest detail by detail because everything is “a sum of small things“.
Oh, I almost forgot. Now I say that she is…
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